December 15, 2006
If you’re going to be in the business world, especially starting your own business, I think this article is helpful. The fact is, many of us introverts need to network, whether we like it or not.
This article basically says, just do it. It’s hard at first, but gets easier. I’m not sure I totally agree with that; for some of us, “just do it” is not possible. I imagine a lot of us choose jobs where do don’t have to network. But there’s some advice here that some of us will find helpful.
December 13, 2006
I have to begin by stating that I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist. I have no training or formal education in either of these topics. But I am a life-long introvert. What I hope to be able to do is present ideas here for review and discussion. I want introverts to be able to accept themselves for who they are and not feel that they have to change something fundamental about their personality in order to “fit in.”
I felt I needed some history of the word “introvert.” I was surprised to learn that its use as a noun is relatively modern. According to the Online Etymology Dictionary, the noun only dates to 1918 and is based on the work of Carl Jung.
I also learned that the Myers Briggs Type Indicator, which I imagine nearly everyone takes at one time in their life (I’ve now done it twice in the last 5 or 6 years) is also based on Jung’s work. There is a great introduction to Carl Jung‘s work at Wikipedia.
Myers Briggs is a huge topic and, as I’ve mentioned, I’m not really qualified to cover it in any depth. You can start with the Myers Briggs Foundation. Probably the most useful section is Trusting MBTI Information on the Web. There is an awful lot of stuff out there; as with anything on the Internet, be careful of your sources. That being said, this site seems to have a relatively good overview and will allow you to get an idea of your type if you’ve never taken the official test.
December 13, 2006
This blog started based on a few things:
The fabulous article by Jonathan Rauch from The Atlantic Online in March 2003 entitled Caring for Your Introvert. It’s the article that started it all. See the follow-up articles here and here.
A thread conversation on BlogHer about the need for an Introvert Manifesto (credit goes to Caroline for the title!).
A conversation with my sister about her introvert daughter and why she doesn’t like parties.
I hope this is a place for all of us introverts to gather, discuss, share, lament and cope with all the extroverts in our lives. Let me know what you want to see here!