Dating for Introverts

Found this great article at Salon about introverts dating introverts. It makes so much sense. And explains why I almost loathe even the idea of dating. I would rather have a root canal (and I’ve had three of them) than make small talk with someone just for the sake of making small talk. I have a very good male friend right now and I realized when things really clicked for us (not in that way, but sort of — it’s confusing). It was when we stopped talking and were just silent — drinking coffee, driving in a car, etc. When the silences weren’t uncomfortable, I knew this was someone special in my life. I think that’s how introverts know something is going to work.

(Salon articles are free, but you will have to watch a brief ad to get to the full article.)

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One Response to Dating for Introverts

  1. gene says:

    The core of all truth is control. Introvert’s addiction to control is much different than an extrovert’s addiction to control. There should be a place for only introverts to work, live and love but the extroverts will never allow it.

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